Finding a Voice
Thursday, September 06, 2007
if you feel you need more confidence, try this:
I have yet to try this exercise, but I will. Wanted to share it with my readers before closing the original window.
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Take a piece of paper.
Create four columns, numbered 1-4.
In the second column, write down three to five skills or disciplines you are confident you do well.
In the third column, write down three to five areas where you don't feel confident, and you wish you did because it relates to your passion for excellence in what you do.
In the fourth column, beside each of those areas in column No. 3, write down the name of someone who you believe has mastered this skill or discipline.
Next, contact them and ask for their advice and assistance in learning to do what they do well.
Now, go back to column No. 1 and write down the names of people who you identify as needing to strengthen the skills or disciplines that you do well. Go to them and encourage them with the wisdom of your knowledge and experience.
Confidence comes, as Alfred White told me, from "passion, self-pride, and responsibility."
from "Alfred White on self-confidence, servant leadership, and passion in life" by Ed Brenegar, originally posted here.
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